Where exactly may we meet without violating yichud, and which places must be avoided?ask your rav
Rav Dubov advises meeting in a public place or at home with shomrim present, and avoiding any setting of seclusion.
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Rav Nissan Dovid Dubov
Both should know the laws of yichud and the prohibition on touching. His basic instruction: they should either meet in a home where shomrim are present or in a public area. The door of the room at home is not locked, and as an added stringency it is left ajar. He rules out deserted parks, forests and secluded spots in the countryside, as well as late-night drives alone together, especially out of town.
“they should either meet in a home where shomrim are present or in a public area”
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